Wallpaper Laws and Policies

We have laws, policies, rules and regulations. Even the smallest organization is equipped with policies. But there are times that those things are treated as wallpapers, decorations and worst, as trash. 

I remember my law professor once said that some laws are "hinatable" (derived from Bicol word "hinat" or "nahihinat" which means stretchable or flexible). He further said that this happens when laws are not fully applied or applied with some considerations. What are those considerations? It can be humanitarian or merely influence.... or should I say, just like a parent or a teacher who plays favorites. There are advantages and disadvantages. One advantage is that, you gave chance to that person after committing mistakes to rise up again, provided that he really deserves that chance. Well, it is still valid, right? So if that person committed a heavy offense but he promised not to do it again, some bosses or authorities would just say, "ah well, ok, stick to your promise." And we have to admit, most of us Filipinos, have soft hearts. It's not bad after all. But when needed, we truly have to be firm and stick to the policies not to the promises of erring workers. One of the disadvantages of the "hinatable policies" or laws is that, it gives people the picture of leniency and they can do what they want over and over again. Or might as well, some would also commit the same mistake because the first offender was pardoned easily. In an organization, workplace, local or national scene, everywhere, if the law-making body  shows leniency in implementing rules and regulations, there will be no room for improvement and those policies will just be laughed at and will be put to trash. What is now the use of coming up with those policies if it is not effectively implemented? We are taught to be good persons but it does not include the idea of tolerating violations of policies and laws. We should not be called kind, then, but idiots. It is happening most of the time. If we are dreaming to have a community where equality exists and justice prevails, we should do our part. Each of us should do something and make a difference. 

the laugh laugh laugh addict

I prefer radio more than TV. Just love listening to music because it calms a wounded  heart and heals a bad mood. I also love listening to radio shows. They are inspiring and enlightening. That's why I was so overwhelmed when offered a volunteer hosting slot in a local FM radio. I've been doing it for 3 years. Right now, I  have a show once in a week with religious co-hosts. We admit that we have ups and downs. We started so well. We gained lots of listeners. We have many promos and prizes. But sometimes, we couldn't attend to our show because we are all busy in our respective work. We usually receive 30 plus messages during our show, which overwhelms us. We also receive positive and negative comments. We all treasure those things. The usual comment we receive is that, we are laughing most of the time. Some would say that it sounds annoying and irritating over the radio. We noted that. Personally, I control my laughter and would just smile or bite my lips or would just turn away from the microphone so that I will not be heard when I'm laughing. Truly, we accept our mistake. We are just joyful persons and we enjoy each other's company.

However, I couldn't believe that I will be one of those people who finds laughing on air annoying. I really thought it is cool all the time, but it is not because to be laughed at is such an irritating and embarrassing experience, especially if it's done on air. I have been experiencing this for a lot of times but I just ignore it. However, I guess, my patience vanished that time. I was sharing something eagerly and the person who is inside the booth but not part of our show, started laughing so I stopped talking. I thought that something was wrong with my microphone. But I was wrong.She was laughing over my manner of talking and my co-hosts also asked me something like in a way of a joke. So I wrinkled because I couldn't accept that I sound mad while sharing, just like what they said. For me, I was just talking naturally, I wasn't even cracking jokes that's why I was shocked that they burst out laughing. Then, I just kept quiet. I didn't want to make a big deal out of it because I'm used to that kind of atmosphere but I realize that it was a form of disrespect. It's like I'm inside the classroom and my classmates were laughing at me while I'm called during a recitation. It is such a bad feeling. If to them, it is just a so-so ordinary laughter, well, for me, they should refrain from doing so because it's not really good to be laughed at without a valid reason. We can play jokes but if someone is serious of sharing ideas and the like, we should listen and smile if we want, but don't laugh. 

I am not angry, I'm just upset because we are all grownups. We should act like grownups too. Laughing is the best way to ease emotional pain but we should laugh only in the right time and place for the right reason. We are not crazy. We are not stupid. Yes, live, love and laugh but know our limits.

Momjunction's Exclusive Contest for Moms

hello everyone! honestly, i love joining contests online. most of the time, i would search for those and join without hesitation. now that i am a mom, i am more interested in joining contests for kids/babies/moms. it's definitely advantageous even if you don't get the prize, you get a priceless experience. great that i found another one.  i am much delighted to learn that Momjunction has an exclusive contest for moms like us! i personally like their site. it's very useful and informative. Moms should be visiting Momjunction regularly for more knowledge on motherhood.Please join for a chance to win an iPad2! so cool and fit for moms! Visit them on pinterest, facebook and twitter! why don't you try joining as well? goodluck to all of us! here's the link: http://www.momjunction.com/contest-for-moms/

Phrianessa Trixelle-- our little princess

"Hello world!"
said my daughter, Phrianessa Trixelle.

Just gave birth last May 14, 2014 at 9:54 a.m., normal delivery. Yipee! It was unexpected coz she came out 17 days advance but still, I'm glad, coz finally I surpassed the pain, discomfort, fear and the challenge... I am really grateful to God coz He never left me. Indeed, this baby girl is a precious gift from God!

Creative Writing Tutorial

hi there! do you have a passion for writing?! why not join the summer creative writing tutorial class?
1. for students 14-20 years of age
2. registration fee: P 1, 500.00 with handouts 
3. 10 slots only
4. venue: our residence at Magsaysay St. Bibincahan, Sor. City (near corner Gate 3 SPPVS)
5. 14 sessions only-- here's the schedule:
March  29-- 9am-11am
April 3, 4, 10, 11,23, 24, 25, 30 -- 1:30 pm-3:30 pm
May 1,2,7,8,9 -- 1:30-3:30pm

6. students' works will be featured on:www.facebook.com/groups/arastoryshop
7. by May 2014, their final work--which is a short story will be featured on wattpad.com . Each of them will have their own Wattpad account. 

I'm back

Oh my it's been  5 months of not visiting my blog. I am just so into facebook and twitter more. However, i got several good news for you. The biggest of them all is that I AM PREGNANT! YES! After 1 year and 4 months of waiting, I found out I'm pregnant last Sept. 28, 2013. I was so happy when I got hold of the two positive pregnancy tests! Right now, I am going 6 months. I have to wait for a week more. My due would be on June 1st but many people would say that I might give birth in advance because it's my first child. Well, I just have to wait for God's will. I keep on praying for the baby's health and I truly wish to have a normal delivery.

Second news is that, I stopped working as secretary. I was encouraged to continue but I chose not to. So, last December 2013, I started being a part time house wife and part time college instructress. Yes, still teaching Economics in a College Seminary here. At least I still have work even though it's for part time and then I do English/Filipino tutorials every weekend. However, I still hope that after I give birth I would be able to have a permanent job/career.

Third, is that, our Hello Father Tuesday Edition program is so doing well! We are now on our 8th month and I do wish that we will stay longer. :) Thanks to all our friends and listeners!

I am happy with how my life is going on right now eventhough my earnings decrease and I spend most of my time at home, I feel satisfied because I am preparing myself for a whole new role which is being a mom! :) I cant wait. I am so excited to meet our baby girl!

Hollie Cavanagh followed me!

After a year, finally hollie followed me on twitter. It feels so nice because I made a facebook page for her and joshua ledet. atlast, she recognized me! Good that I joined the fan lyric video surprise for her first single Outerlimit. I treated this as a birthday gift. The video came out July 17 and she followed me on the same day. It's just like a dream come true. You may laugh coz I sound like a teen but it doesn't matter. Happiness is for all ages, right?

here's the link of our video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0tZVHtciBh4